Ummm, there IS no "wrong thing", IMO. All the advice you have gotten, and all the strategies you have employed, are valid and valuable to some extent. That said, I would back off of a lot, if only because they are complicating the picture.
There is no "ill health" here, only a little battle going on inside her, using "fleas" and "diet" and other things you've tried or thought as a way to point you in a healthy direction. And I know that sounds dumb.
You have a great and powerful little being here, engaged in a sparring match with natural partners - not opponents, but assistants in building true health. She's doing this to meet her own needs, and to show us something very important about how powerful the body is.
My take would be to simply observe. AND to look to true, simple, and incisive classical homeopathy. View this process as a challenge for you both - they come to teach, you know - and properly chosen remedies can help, even if they look unproductive at the time.
This is an opportunity, to uncloud your mind and learn by observation. She is FINE, but laden with knowledge, like a child with an armload of library books. She is healthy - not "but", but "and", with important things to teach you.
Deep breath, dear.
Thank you for your response. I really haven't been doing that much, only simple tweaks on more enrichment. And it was advised through this thread to see a holistic vet in-person.
I don’t expect anyone to be 100% correct. No one can be. But it's not unreasonable to be confused and concerned when Dr. Christina was completely adamant that it wasn’t fleas. I think we all want to be led in the right direction for our animals. My local homeopathic vet wanted to take a look at her again today to check the areas she was itching, and says she looks better. Her coat is silky and the redness is gone just a little over a month with the Bravecto. It is from fleas because she's all bare by her genital area and that's where fleas like to be. She's supposed to have hair there. So there was some wrong information being shared. Every animal is different, just like every person is different. It can only take one flea bite to have a reaction. And if they’re getting bit a lot, of course there will eventually be a reaction. Changing weather can cause areas to have more fleas than previous years, so it can't be dismissed.
Carmel never had flea allergies before stopping commercial flea treatment. Was trying to switch over to natural stuff. If it wasn’t fleas at all, why was Carmel mainly hanging out in the room that had a berber rug? Fleas don’t like berber.
There IS a reason for the itching and yes I understand it’s not dangerous, but I still wanted to get it worked out. And having clarity is helpful for anyone. Our animals are our family members, our children.
I want other people to feel seen who come across a similar issue. A balance of Eastern & Western medicine is important.
Would saying “you’re doing so good itching”, getting her purring, or enrichment get fleas to stop biting, or keep them away? As super sweet as those things are. Maybe I just don't get it. I think there has to be something effective or why else would we need flea preventatives at all? Being led in a direction where I’m NOT to think of it being fleas, didn't help me personally.
I’m not trying to be a pain. But my concern matters too. Maybe this just doesn’t work for me, and that’s okay. I’m glad I found a local vet that was able to figure out a solution where I'm seeing results. She does homeopathy and other holistic remedies, but doesn’t think there is a need for it in this case. Carmel is very healthy otherwise. Thank you though!