Not sure exactly which folder this belongs in -- probably a new one on the issues associated with gonad sparing sterilization operations, both behavioral and health -- but I'll put it here until someone starts the appropriate folder.
Having grown up in the 'modern' age, the last intact female dog I ever had as a family member was back when I was about 4 years old, so I really need some advice. So far, I have a vasectomized male, Merlin, and an 8 month old (maybe slightly older) intact female, Kaya. I have no idea if Kaya is getting close to being "in season" or not, as I got her when she was about 7 months old, so I haven't seen Kaya and Merlin together during a time when she was most definitely NOT near being "in season". I can tell you that Merlin tries to mount her multiple times a day, and sniffs and licks her "female parts" much of day. Kaya resists being mounted, but she's definitely not very upset at him. And they do both settle down for periods during the day, as well as at night. Confusing the issue is that Kaya may still have some red blood cells in her urine from her (hopefully healed) UTI and maybe stress-induced bladder inflammation. Merlin may be reacting to the blood in her urine, if this is the case (and I really don't know, yet, as her first appt. with the new vet isn't for another month).
So...for those of you who have had a vasectomized male and a non-spayed female in the same house, what do you do, if anything? Do you keep them separated? Let them work it out (since there will be no puppies)? Apply some other means to give the female a break from the male's attentions? I can tell you that my dogs really don't like to be separated. Even training them separately for 10 minutes at a time is sometimes difficult, as the dog who is left out of the activity will make a bit of a fuss, and the other will respond.
I would like to have an ovary sparing spay done on Kaya, but I want to know what I'm getting into, first.
Having grown up in the 'modern' age, the last intact female dog I ever had as a family member was back when I was about 4 years old, so I really need some advice. So far, I have a vasectomized male, Merlin, and an 8 month old (maybe slightly older) intact female, Kaya. I have no idea if Kaya is getting close to being "in season" or not, as I got her when she was about 7 months old, so I haven't seen Kaya and Merlin together during a time when she was most definitely NOT near being "in season". I can tell you that Merlin tries to mount her multiple times a day, and sniffs and licks her "female parts" much of day. Kaya resists being mounted, but she's definitely not very upset at him. And they do both settle down for periods during the day, as well as at night. Confusing the issue is that Kaya may still have some red blood cells in her urine from her (hopefully healed) UTI and maybe stress-induced bladder inflammation. Merlin may be reacting to the blood in her urine, if this is the case (and I really don't know, yet, as her first appt. with the new vet isn't for another month).
So...for those of you who have had a vasectomized male and a non-spayed female in the same house, what do you do, if anything? Do you keep them separated? Let them work it out (since there will be no puppies)? Apply some other means to give the female a break from the male's attentions? I can tell you that my dogs really don't like to be separated. Even training them separately for 10 minutes at a time is sometimes difficult, as the dog who is left out of the activity will make a bit of a fuss, and the other will respond.
I would like to have an ovary sparing spay done on Kaya, but I want to know what I'm getting into, first.